Category: Relationship

  • Being pure of heart

    To be somebody is being pure of heart

    -being free from self-interest

    -being free from selfish ambitions

    -being free from wrong reactions of mistrust and suspicion

    When you are pure of heart

    -you listen with understanding

    -you listen with goodwill

    -you are open to new ideas

    -you are receptive and creative,

    looking for the beautiful dream

    springing forth from the innocent eyes of your neighbour

  • Longing for God

    To be somebody is longing for God

    -above everything else

    Longing for God is not longing for an experience

    It is longing for a true relationship

    It is not about having some knowledge of God

    But it is about knowing him

    -as a person

    -as a friend

    -as a confidant

    -as a companion

    Not to become high on him

    But to be conformed to his image

    Not to learn more, to increase knowledge

    But to love him more

    I am somebody when I realise

    -I am created to be a God-lover

    I am somebody when the very purpose of my life

    -is to love God

    I am somebody when I am longing for God

    -only because of love

  • Seeing people

    To be somebody is to see people

    For what they are and love them

    To see people is to care

    It is taking interest in persons you never met before

    When you see people you give them time and attention

    Seeing people is to see the visible needs

    and to do what you can to meet the invisible needs

    Seeing people is to touch them with your hands,

    as you silently pray for God's blessing upon them

    Even though others will say that they only need a doctor

    Seeing people is not treating them as patients

    But touching them with care

    And bestowing dignity on them

  • Valueing relationships

    To be somebody is to value relationships

    above politically correct opinions

    or orthodox teology and right confession of belief

    Living in a good relationship

    with my Creator and my fellow man

    make me a human person

    Political opinions or religious theories

    have a tendency to make me a political animal or a religious beast

    Being a friend is more important

    than having the best argument

    When you care for people

    by showing love through acts of mercy

    you far exceed the greatest philosopher

    in his clever definition of love

    When you live in proper relationships

    you are really somebody

    even though you can't explain love

  • Because of my birth

    I am somebody because of my birth

    I am born into the most prestigious royal family

    My father is the Sovereign Ruler

    -of the entire universe

    Because he is the almighty creator

    -of everything that exist

    My brother is the Redeemer

    -of the human race

    Because he conquered death,

    The evil powers of darkness,

    Selfishness and sin in all its fashions

    My personal assistant is the Sustainer

    -of the whole world

    Because he is the eternal life-giving spirit

    He assisted my father

    -in bringing the world into being

    He assisted my brother

    -in bringing him back from the death

    I am somebody because of my relationship

    With the mysterious triune Being

    Who loved me, chose me, and planned me

    Even before the universe existed

    Only because of his marvellous grace

    I am born into the Kingdom of Love

    Friendship with the Living One

    Turns a nobody into a real Somebody

  • Knowing the Invisible

    To be somebody is to know the Invisible

    By living in a personal relationship

    Through everyday life with him who walks with you

    -when no one else is there for you.

    You touch him

    -even though you can’t feel him with your hands

    You hear his tender voice of thunder

    -even though your ear don’t register a sound

    You see him clearly

    -even though your eyes only see the natural world

    By faith only you know the Invisible

    -for faith is the art of hearing him

    Through hope you cling on to the Invisible

    -for hope is the art of believing him

    Through love you get close to the Invisible

    -for love is the art of trusting him

    To be somebody is to hear, believe and trust

    In him who no one can see

    -even though he is ever present

    -even though he constantly reveals himself

    The Invisible can only be known in an intimate relationship

    (Inspired by some phrases in Summoned to Lead by Leonard Sweet)

  • Seeing with eyes and heart

    To be somebody is to see

    That is what it is all about

    Seeing with the eyes and the heart

    Being present among our neighbours

    Some have eyes but don’t see anything

    Others have eyes that can’t see

    But still they see more than the most

    Seeing is discovering and perceiving

    What people see, tells you

    What kind of people they are

  • I am getting feedback, therefore I am!

    To be somebody is to express oneself and having feedback

    – from those who read or listen to us

    – from those who observe and touch us

    To be somebody is to interact with others

    – because you love people

    It is to communicate because you care

    And staying connected because of the worth you find in others

    The joy of being read

    – is the knowledge that others take time with you

    The excitement of having comments

    – is the feeling that others take you serious

    The thrill of getting feedback

    – is the sense of being connected

    To be somebody is being intoxicated

    – by feeling of being in touch with the World

    – the feeling of crossing borders

    – the joy of breaking down barriers

    – the excitement of getting rid of your own limitations

    Being enabled to communicate

    To people close to you and those from far parts of the world

  • Infecting people

    To be somebody is to infect people

    By your joy and hope

    By your attitudes of faith and love

    By your positive words

    By your wholesome lifestyle

    By your acts of kindness

    Great people have the capacity

    Of enjoying being with people who are different

    Sharing their life and values naturally

    Great people are infectious

    In the way they live and speak

    Always giving of themselves

    When you are not infected by evil

    Not infected by the greed around you

    Not infected by the envy you face

    Not infected by the materialism of society

    Or the fatalism of traditional religion

    But rather infecting your environment

    Then you are really somebody

  • Great people

    To be somebody is the same as being great

    Great people can be seen

    – By their unselfish actions and their sacrificial service

    Great people can be heard

    – By their encouraging words and faithful confessions

    Great people can be touched

    – Through their practical involvement in our lives

    Great people can be felt

    – By the atmosphere of love, joy and hope that surrounds them

    Great people have an effect on us

    – They bring out the best in us

    And creates in us a desire to change for the better

    As great people has the capacity for enlargement

    And the longing for change

    That motivates them to never settle

    But reach their full potential in God